Choose Your Own Lens

Last week, I was in Portugal delivering a keynote for the most senior execs of a multi-billion-dollar global company.

As impressive as they and the company were, I was taken most by the driver who picked me up from the airport.

Jose was warm and inviting, and I could instantly tell he was genuinely excited to give me a ride. Once en route, he transformed from a driver into an inspiring teacher. A mix between historian, tour guide, philosopher and museum docent, he spoke with eloquence about his beloved country.

He shared stories from the 1500s, discussed musical styles and trends, pointed out architectural relics, and even discussed world affairs including global trade and geopolitical tensions. He was so knowledgeable, I started looking for a hidden camera, thinking maybe I was being punked.

Beyond his expert storytelling and far-reaching knowledge, what stood out most was his enthusiasm for both his country and his work. He didn’t view his job as a driver from point A to point B. Instead, he was a professor and an ambassador.

It struck me that this energizing soul made a conscious choice on how to walk the planet. He could walk in a state of disappointment, craving, fear, anger, and jealousy as I’m sure his life isn’t perfect. But instead, he chose the lens of acceptance, compassion, and generosity. He wasn’t just doing a job… he was taking great joy in sharing his love for Portugal.

After he dropped me off, shaking my hand vigorously and making sure I had a fresh bottle of water, I reflected on Jose’s wisdom and the intentional way he chose to show up. Too often, we live in a state of lack. Or fear. Or anger. Or regret. Jose traded grievance for positivity; resentment for equanimity. 

In fact, we all get to choose our own adventure. We get to select the lens through which we see life. Instead of choosing impulsively, we can all make an intentional selection of how we see – and interact – with the world.

As we walk into the opportunities and challenges of 2026, let’s remember that we get to choose. If things are not to our liking, we can skip blame and jump right over to a new lens. One that is productive, helpful, and congruent with who we’re meant to be.

Jose, thanks for reminding me that we all get to choose our own adventure.

Choose wisely.